The number one question I get from parents interested in social skills groups is, "what will my child learn?." I always explain that every child is unique and learns at a different pace, but there are basic lessons most children take away from the experience in my classes. Group members learn skills that allow them to work with their peers;
Group Lessons
Common lessons learned include how to:
-Listen to each other
-Look at others
-Use appropriate facial expression
-Use appropriate body language
-Join in with others
-Use appropriate word choice
-Find friends
-Solve problems
How lessons are taught
The process is the same each week with group members opening the group with a fun ice breaker where they learn about each other; reviewing how they applied their skills the previous week and receiving positive reinforcement; and then learning a new skill. They then practice the new skills and previous skills learned, evaluate how they did, and then receive feedback from group leaders. At the end of the group they write a plan for how to apply the new skill during the week and celebrate their efforts by either receiving points that can be exchanged for an agreed upon positive reinforcer. Lessons are video taped so group members can see their growth throughout the program.
Parent Training
Social skills groups allow kids to learn basic skills and practice them in a safe environment. They get homework to try the skills in the real world and come back and get reinforced with positive praise for their efforts and achievements.. Group members learn interaction skills and have fun all at the same time. Parents receive feedback as to how their children are achieving goals. Recommendations are made as to if further training is needed or if the group member does not need additional groups. Parents are given training in the program to help them learn how to transfer skills their children learn to their natural environment at home and school.
Children learn a lot in a social skills program including basic communications skills, but more importantly how to apply their skills in a safe and controlled setting. Kids learn while having fun and working with their peers. Parents are trained in the lessons their children learn so they can help their child improve their skills outside of the group.